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MBTI: Tool for Empathy or Trap for Identity? How to Use the 16 Personality Types Wisely

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Today, almost everyone has heard of MBTI — the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator.   You’ve probably taken the test and caught yourself saying things like “I’m an introvert,” “I’m an INFP,” or “I’m an INTJ, so I need alone time.” Sometimes it even feels like those four letters define who you are.   But here’s the big question: Is […]

Breaking Bad Habits: Why Understanding Alone Doesn’t Lead to Change

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Today, I want to start with a question:   Have you ever listened to a podcast, read a book, or attended a workshop and thought, “Oh wow… he’s literally talking about me.”   They explain your situation so clearly, you finally understand why you are the way you are, the science behind it, all those […]

Why Rest Doesn’t Feel Restful? You Need To Know This ONE Thing

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In my therapy work, I’ve noticed that many of my clients truly recognize the importance of rest and recovery.   They book a massage, schedule a spa day, or take time off work.   The goal is simple: lie down and do “nothing.”   I’m sure you’ve done this too.   And yet… You don’t […]

Tai Po Fire: Vicarious Trauma First Aid Kit – From Powerless to Powerful

It’s been a heavy week for Hong Kong.   The Tai Po fire tragedy has plunged us into a stew of emotions: sadness, confusion, anger, fear, overwhelm, and deep grief—all tangled together.   Feeling all of this is painful, yet every emotion carries an important message. As I always say, emotions are action signals.   […]

When Everything Triggers Anxiety & How to Chill

The holiday season is coming. We’re mostly excited — but my clients also tell me their anxiety is roaring louder than ever! Anxiety is so common in Hong Kong: 60 % of people here reported feeling anxious in the past 12 months. As I’ve shared before on my podcast Thrive On The Go, anxiety is actually […]

Do These 3 Things In Bed For A Beautiful Day

You may have heard of the “morning rituals” of celebrities that go viral in books, podcasts, and social media. But what is so remarkable about the morning rituals? First, believe it or not, the moment you wake up is the best opportunity to set the tone of the day. During sleep, the momentum of your […]